How Freshly’s Focus on Infrastructure & Empathy Supports Fast Growth with Colin Crowley

Episode 138

Colin Crowley Voice of Influence Podcast Andrea Joy Wenburg

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Colin Crowley is the VP of Customer Experience at Freshly, where he directs a two-hundred-person department across five locations in the United States and beyond. He specializes in building customer service departments from the ground up with a focus on scalability, infrastructure agility, technological innovation, and gold-standard quality and efficiency.

In this conversation, Colin shares the five key pillars of customer support that Freshly adopted, their cross-functional communication and how they involve customer service agents into their strategic process, how a voice of influence needs to have a good sense of the on the ground reality as well the strategic big picture, and more.

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Transcript

People of influence know that their voice matters and that they can make it matter more.  I’m Andrea Wenburg, and welcome to the Voice of Influence podcast.

Today, I’m speaking with Colin Crowley, the VP of Customer Experience at Freshly, where he directs a two-hundred-person department across five locations in the United States and beyond.  He specializes in building customer service departments from the ground up with a focus on scalability, infrastructure agility, technological innovation, and gold-standard quality and efficiency.

In this conversation, Colin is going to tell us a few things.  You’re going to hear the five key pillars of customer support that Freshly adopted, and let me tell you right now that they are very applicable across customer experience.  So, I really encourage you to listen and think about how you could apply some of these to your own company.

He talks about their cross-functional communication and how they involved customer service agents into their strategic process.  And I ask a few direct questions about just how that plays out for them, and the benefit to both the customer service agent and to the organization and customer.

And then finally, he shares about how a voice of influence needs to have a good sense of the on the ground reality as well the strategic big picture.

Here’s my conversation with Colin about how Freshley’s focus on infrastructure allows them to grow fast.

Andrea:  Colin, welcome to the Voice of Influence podcast.

Colin Crowley:  Thank you.  It’s great to be here.

Andrea:  Can you tell us a little bit about Freshly and your role there?

Colin Crowley:  Sure.  Freshly is a ready-made meal service that’s very active in what’s called the food tech space alongside companies like Blue Apron and HelloFresh.  We’re very different from those companies, though, because rather than shipping ingredients to customers that you can use to cook meals and have the experience of enjoying your kitchen, we ship ready-made meals that are already prepared.

So, essentially, you get the meals delivered in an insulated box, and you can pop them in the microwave for about three minutes.  Or if you so desire, you could pop them in the oven instead if you don’t like the microwave, and then you’re all set and you’re ready to go.  We really sit at the nexus of health and convenience, and we’re there to provide healthy meal options for consumers who otherwise are too busy in their lives or don’t have the time to get up and cook as much as they would like to or not like to as the case may be.

We know that there’s definitely the need for this sort of service in a very modern world like this that’s so very, very busy.  We’re also healthy food, which I would define as all-natural and gluten-free.  We’re actually the largest certified gluten-free meal producer in the country right now.

I’m the VP of Customer Experience at Freshly, which is to say I’m in charge of our customer support function.  We have approximately two hundred customer support agents, with some in the United States in New York and Arizona.  And we also have two offices abroad that we use to supplement our customer support as well.  We’re active on phone lines, webchat, email, text messaging, and even Apple Business Chats.  So, we’re pretty active in all contact channels, and we’re available 24/7.

Andrea:  I love the idea of your product.  And it’s amazing to me how quickly you were able to scale and bring people on board in your customer experience function.  How many people did you say are involved with that now?

Colin Crowley:  We have approximately two hundred people.

Andrea:  How do you help all of those people to not only… of course, they’re going to need to know about their product, your product and the answers that they need to provide, but to almost even be able to really represent you well as a brand?

Colin Crowley:  Yeah.  That’s actually a great question.  A lot of what we did is we focused very early in growing customer support on infrastructure building.  And I should also provide the caveat that when I joined Freshly, which was about four and a half years ago, we had just moved our headquarters to New York City.  So, back then, we only had one other person in customer support, only a single person who’s answering all the phone calls and emails from Arizona.

So, I built up the team from the bottom up from there.  So, we went from that one person in 2016 to about 12 people by the end of 2016, to about forty people by the end of 2017, and it’s just grown exponentially from there.  We spent a lot of time investing very, very early in quality assurance at Freshly, knowing that if you really want to set standards for how you want your customers to be treated, it’s important to do so very early in the growth of a customer support organization.

Because once you grow an organization and you reach a certain size of even like fifty agents plus, it’s much harder to go back and then try to impose standards on those people almost as a second thought, because by then you have agents who have, you know, learned certain bad practices, let us say, and it’s just harder to get buy-in from agents on the ground.  So, you really have to be proactive.

Very early on when we only had about six agents and this is at the end of 2015, I worked with the seniormost of those agents to establish a pretty intensive quality assurance program, which we’ve grown overtime to make it even more specific.  But we really sat down to ask ourselves, “What do we value in the relationship with our customers, and what do our customers need from us as a customer support organization?”

And we define five key pillars of customer support.  And then we ask questions like, “How do you realize those pillars in actuality as opposed to them being theoretical concepts?”  So, one idea being that we focused on empathy as a key component, and of course, empathy is important in all aspects of customer service.  But it’s especially important for us because we deal with the product, namely food, which is very personal and which directly impacts people’s health.

So, the ability to have a free-flowing, meaningful, friendly conversation with a customer support agent is important for our customers in particular, because they’re inviting us as a company into their lives in more intimate ways than perhaps if they were buying shoes.  And we wanted to make sure that the customers felt comforted by that interaction, that we did the best we could to assist them.

Another example is that we are very conscious of the fact that as an organization, we were – and still are – in a very unique space where there really isn’t another company that’s doing what we’re doing – namely shipping fresh meals – not frozen on a national scale across all forty-eight states.  Again, we have a lot of companies that are meal kit services, but we don’t really see companies that are actually in charge of such a vast operation in producing the meals themselves as opposed to outsourcing that to local vendors.

We are very conscious that customers may come into the relationship with us not quite knowing what service we provide and thinking we are a meal kit service.  So, we put a lot of emphasis in our quality assurance program on what we call being outgoing or basically being proactive, and defining certain pieces of information that should be delivered to customers, even if it’s not directly relevant to the customer’s question or concern.  That’s just making sure that customers fully understand the nature of our service, and that we’re trying to get ahead of future problems or future questions they may have rather than be reactive.

Andrea:  I like that.  So, what would one example be of an outgoing or proactive statement that you feel your customers would need to hear, even if that’s not what they’re necessarily calling about?

Colin Crowley:  Sure.  A perfect example is the fact that we’re a subscription service.  So, you sign up with us, and you order a box of four, six, nine, or twelve meals that will actually be delivered every week.  And of course, you choose the day of delivery that makes the most sense for you, and you can change that after the fact, and you can change your meals from week to week, etcetera.  But we’re really designed to fit into someone’s lifestyle as opposed to being a one-time thing.

And of course, retention and loyalty is very important for us among our customers.  It doesn’t mean that you get us every single week of your life because maybe you want to go and you do want to cook some weeks, etcetera, but we really aim to be a longer-term health solution for customers.  But again, we have a lot of customers coming in not necessarily understanding the nature of our service.

And one thing that we identified early on is that we found customers were confused by the nature of the subscription process.  One thing we do is we are a weekly subscription as opposed to a monthly, so when you order through us, we don’t kind of staple you into receiving meals for an entire month, but rather give you flexibility to skip week over week, which is meant to be more flexible for the customer.  But it also can create more confusion because you have a quicker turnaround if you want to skip receiving meals one week and so forth.

So, we put as a standard in customer support that when you identify a customer as being a new customer – and we have definitions of what a new customer is; so you know, typically someone who’s on their first or their second order – and you have an interaction with those customers, you should proactively make sure that they are aware that we are a subscription service.  And you should proactively assist them by mentioning the deadline that we have for every customer to either skip your next week or change your meals for your next week, knowing that that is a pain point for a lot of early customers who either don’t know we’re a subscription service or if they do, they may not be cognizant of how quickly they have to make decisions about what meals they want for the next week.

So, we’ve enforced that pretty regularly over the past four years.  And it’s definitely helped us to get in front of problems and make sure customers have a better experience, because those customers that we’re informing about our subscription service are now less likely to be confused and suddenly they find that they’re charged.

Andrea:  And were you able to kind of anticipate that ahead of time?  You said it’s been going on for four years that you’ve been saying this particular thing, or is it something that you responded to once you realized there was a problem?

Colin Crowley:  It’s something that we responded to when we realized it was a problem.  It didn’t take long.  I think that’s probably a truism, generally speaking, in customer support.  I mean, in a lot of cases, data is important and the ability to collect data is obviously very important.  But I think most companies probably find that the information about what your customers care about is pretty much there under your nose if you’re willing to spend just a little bit of time to find it.

So, it was very easy for us early on to identify, “Wow, these are some of the pain points that our customers have.”  And it’s a logical pain point too because customer service challenges tend to go along with logic.  So, we identified it reactively, so to speak, but it’s something that we acted to handle and address very quickly as well.

Andrea:  Mm-hmm.  So, would you mind sharing briefly the other three pillars?

Colin Crowley:  Sure.  So, aside from empathy and what we call outgoing, we also focus on interactions being clear, which we define as the agent making sure that they are fully understanding what the customer’s needs are.  Because sometimes there could be ambiguity there, and if you don’t appropriately ask questions or appropriately understand what the customer needs, you can’t really address their concerns well.

So, making sure that the agent understands the customer’s concerns and also making sure in their response that they’re very clear; so removing unnecessary clutter from the communication, and not overwhelming the customer with information they may not need.  And also, just making sure that – digitally speaking – if you’re writing an email to someone that it’s presented in such a way where it isn’t just this huge paragraph, but rather information is broken down where it’s more digestible.

Another pillar we have is a professional pillar, as we call it, which encompasses more of the standard QA type of stuff that a lot of companies engage in where we’re looking at spelling, and grammar, and syntax, and things of that nature.  And we have certain standards as to what we expect from agents there and very typical phone etiquette.  For example, also included under that last pillar we have is rational, which is to say we always want our agents to talk up and not down to customers, and explain to customers the reason that they may be limited in being able to assist so that we’re not just sitting there quoting policy at people, but we’re making sure that we’re explaining what we can and cannot do.  And being honest and upfront in what we can and cannot do for them.

Andrea:  Those are great.  When you were first creating these pillars, was there…  Do you have any tips for people who are looking at creating their own or refining their own?  Do you have any specific things that you would suggest people look at?

Colin Crowley:  Well, I think it’s definitely true that to some extent those pillars are relatively universal, where I think most organizations would discover that being clear, and being empathetic, and being professional and proactive, etcetera are all important characteristics of good customer support.  But where I think it really may change from company to company is the weighting on where your emphasis is.

So, for instance, for us, empathy is important, to be outgoing and being proactive is very important, which is why they exist in separate pillars.  And the fact that they exist as separate pillars is relevant because in our scoring system the pillars are all given equal weight, but you may have other companies that, you know, being outgoing is important.  But there are other aspects of the service that are more important, especially if you’re in a very highly regulated, very sensitive field like a medical field or finance or what have you.

So, I can envision that in those particular cases, you may have other things that you want to weight appropriately, which are better justified as a pillar.  So, I think it’s less that the principles are different and it’s more how you weight where your concerns are, because how you weight the concerns not only impacts how you handle scoring, but it also impacts what agents see because agents know what pillars we rate them on.  And so, what we choose as pillars also is what is essentially a branded into the minds of agents as to what we overarchingly care about as an organization.  So, it also helps to direct the people handling customer inquiries as to what you care most about as an organization.

Andrea:  Okay.  So, I know that Freshly is particularly good at cross-functional communication.  Maybe in particular with your marketing department and customer experience departments; I’m curious, how do you guys pull together and do this cross-function communication well?

Colin Crowley:  We adopt an approach that encourages what I would basically call a liaison with other departments and teams.  So, as an example, one area which is relevant for a lot of companies now, because even companies that are brick and mortar stores now have an e-commerce component – so more and more companies, and more and more customer service departments are dealing with people in the product world and people in engineering to get anything done.

So, we have someone in the department who is our kind of niftily titled Associate Director of Infrastructural Efficiency.  And his job is to serve as a conduit between the customer support world, and the engineering and the product world, where typically in a lot of companies, it’s very easy to have a wall that exists between customer support and engineering and product – and of course, customer support, really, and anyone; but, especially, when it comes to engineering and product.

So, this gentleman, who served as a supervisor for many years with us, has a great understanding of customer support operations.  So, he brings that with him, and then he went through project management training.  So, he also understands the nature of project management and he’s able to bring the customer support knowledge with him to serve as our voice in product and engineering discussions when it comes to our backlog, and items to prioritize, and various innovations to our backend order management system.  And he, in turn, also works to coordinate more granular feedback.

So, we have this thing called pod, where customer support agents in all our locations can raise their hand and volunteer to be a member of this pod where they are given like sneak peak access, so to speak, at some of the technological developments coming down the pipe, be these changes to our website or changes to our backend order management system or anything of that nature.  And they have the ability to test run those and to provide comments on them from a customer support perspective.  So, maybe they notice that, you know, this feature could be confusing to customers based on our knowledge of what customers need.

So, they’re able to provide ground-level feedback to product people and engineers who otherwise would not have such an easy way to get that feedback, and at the same time, these agents – because they have a sneak-peek into these different innovations – they’re also able to be used as trainers when these changes go live.  So, they can be there to assist other agents on the ground in understanding the nature of any new features that are premiered and make the learning curve a little less steep.  So that model has been very successful with us in terms of bridging the gap.

Andrea:  How do you choose the people… or you said that they volunteered themselves to be in the pod?

Colin Crowley:  Yes.  In the case of the agents, they volunteer.  So, it’s on a quarterly basis.  So, every quarter, we send out an invitation for agents to raise their hands.  And they have to go through, like, not a too onerous application process, but they do have to spend some time explaining why they would be a good candidate to be in this pod.  And, you know, we’re looking for people who had opinions, and we’re looking for people who are good at expressing opinions.  And we’re looking for people who have some degree of tenure; if not with us, just with customer service generally, so they’d be a good advocate or voice for the customer.

And of course, we’re looking for people across our different offices, because we know that different people in different locations can bring different observations to the field.  So, it’s literally a form that agents fill out, and they volunteer themselves, and there’s an internal discussion as to who would be best suited.  And when you’re chosen, you’re in the position of being in this pod for a quarter.  And you can reapply at the end of the quarter if you so desire, but at least it gives the opportunity for new people to join the fray and to have their voice heard.

Andrea:  Have you had any feedback from the people that have participated in pods in the past and their sense of loyalty or importance of how they feel about Freshly?

Colin Crowley:  Oh yeah, definitely.  I would say that it’s a huge benefit in a lot of ways aside from the informational benefit I mentioned where people in product and engineering get more on the ground feedback from people who actually deal with customers.  But yeah, it is definitely a morale booster for agents because it’s very typical at a lot of organizations where customer support people are kind of isolated in the corner someplace and aren’t particularly consulted on much.  And it’s not particularly unusual for customer support people to feel less valued than other people in an organization.

So, having something like this is really important because it helps these agents not to feel isolated and really to feel that they’re part of a larger organization with a larger purpose and a common objective.  And it also helps, of course, because it enables people to feel that rather than just being reactive… which customer support people often feel is their lot in life because they’re dealing with issues from customers that are the result of changes made by someone in product or someone in marketing, or someone someplace else.

So, you kind of get this overwhelming feeling that you’re at the bottom of the hill, and everything’s flowing down to you, and there’s not much you can do to change that.  This really puts them… not really in the driver’s seat, but it put them in the passenger seat at least, where you have the ability to impact what the company is doing and some of the decisions its making.

Andrea:  Yeah, I really love that.  I love that it also sounds like [it] kind of gives them the sense that their voice really does matter in not just with a particular customer, but within the context of the whole organization.

Colin Crowley:  Definitely, definitely.  And especially as, you know, like I said, our customer support organization is laid out all over the place.  So, it’s not like even within Freshly we have one location where our customer support people live and breathe, but rather we have New York, we have Arizona and then we have two locations abroad.  And even within the US, we have many people who work remotely, and I think that’s true in more and more companies.  I mean, especially now, unfortunately, as a result of COVID-19, we have so many people working remotely.

But that’s just a truism for a lot of companies, and that just creates more challenges for anyone in an organization, but especially customer support people to feel that they’re a part of something larger.  So we’ve found getting more customer support involvement through this pod process and through having designated liaison to the different areas of the business has been very successful.

Andrea:  Yeah, it sounds great.  Okay, so then another practical question.  How do they receive this information and share back their ideas?  Is this through a virtual medium?  Is that through a group, or how do you do that?

Colin Crowley:  Right.  It’s usually through scheduled meetings weekly or bi-weekly.  And of course, we make a lot of use of instant messaging.  So, some of the feedback that agents provide when they’re testing a new product is through instant messaging; or if one of our product managers has an open question, then he’ll ask it broadly in a special instant messaging channel we have, specifically for this pod, and he’ll be able to get responses from the agents.  So, it’s usually either through meetings for more official types of communications – like the premiering a new product or what have you – and then in between, there’s a lot of messaging back and forth.

Andrea:  So, if giving people the opportunity to share their ideas and share their ideas with other people in other areas of the company is an important thing for you, how does that work when you’re training managers or directors?  What are the kinds of characteristics do you look for in somebody when you’re hiring?  And then also, do you have any particular things that you do to encourage them in these in this area?

Colin Crowley:  Well, I would say one thing, which has definitely been consistently true…  And this is true even of our hiring practices for agents, I would say as well is that we traditionally haven’t looked for people who are solely backgrounded in like call centers or contact centers.  We found that the ideal candidate – and again, this is true for managers too – is generally someone who has some sort of mix between the two, where they have a background in contact centers so they can appreciate some of the nuances and context in our policy.

Like attendance policy, as an example, which – if you’re not coming from the industry – can appear too strict and too stringent, but makes sense if you understand the industry.  So, that’s important, to get that ground-level understanding, but it’s also important to get someone who spent time outside the contact center because it’s true that a lot of contact centers may not be the best environments.

So, people can become very jaded being in the contact center environment too much in a company that didn’t particularly invest a lot in their customer service people.  So, we also want to make sure that we get people with experience that’s a little bit broader from that.  So, as a result, we try to have a balance between those two characteristics.

The gentleman who is the Associate Director for Infrastructural Efficiency, he’s someone who has a background in customer service, but it wasn’t initially in the commerce space but rather more in the face to face customer service space.  So, he had great knowledge and great understanding of customer support, even though it wasn’t in an e-commerce context.  And he also had a background in sports management, so a different field outside of customer support.  So, it’s kind of a good example of someone who has a good balance.

I think another thing, broadly speaking is – especially when it comes to managers – looking for people who are just good at relating to other people generally.  Because a lot of the goals we’ve set for our leaders to remove organizational silos really depends on people being good team players, and good team players meaning that they have the ability to build relationships and communicate their point of view, but also understand the point of view of others.  And that, of course, is a quality you can’t really train someone, per se, or at least it’s very difficult to train them.  So, there’s been a big emphasis on choosing leaders who are at heart very collaborational and who show a history of being collaborational in their past, I would say.

Andrea:  Well, this has been really good.  I feel like there are many other questions I could keep asking you, Colin.  Let me kind of close with this particular question.  When you think about yourself, you think about the people that you look to as a voice of influence in your own life, do you have any particular advice for somebody who really does want to have a voice of influence?

Colin Crowley:  Yes, I think a few things that I would say are pretty key… the first is, broadly speaking, you have to know what you’re talking about.  And I would define that specifically as having some sort of balance between being a manager, so you’re not in the weeds, but at the same time making sure that you connect yourself to on the ground realities because you really need a balance of both to be able to go and advocate for your organization when it matters.  Because if you’re too far above the weeds and too much in strategy, then you’ll miss the operational nuances that are essential for your organization to smooth functionally and not appropriately represent those when it matters.  And of course, if you’re too much in the weeds, then you can’t see the big picture and you won’t be taken seriously when it comes to the larger strategic meetings.

So, you really need someone who strategically maintains certain anchors in on the ground realities.  I would say a second thing is you really have to focus a good deal on data if you want to have a voice of influence; because the great thing about data is if it’s done correctly, data is like a universal language.  So, it’s a bit like music to some extent where you can have English, and French, and Spanish, etcetera; and you can get a bunch of people in a room and they can’t communicate together, but music is universal.  And data is universal – where if you start talking about values and principles and theories with someone who’s in marketing or product and engineering, then you’ll get all sorts of different opinions in certain areas that are crucial.

But when you talk data, data is like a common language where as long as you’re tracking the right data points and you can make a case with data, you can get across to someone your position much better than if you argue theory.  So that also is another important thing.  I would say the last thing that strikes me as being pretty key is really to be a good listener.  I think a lot of people [who] lose their ability to have a voice of influence, that they spend too much time talking.

And I would say this not only with colleagues in different departments… which, of course, is important to listen so you understand where they’re coming from, because sometimes a lot of communication challenges are created because there’s just a lack of understanding of someone else’s position and the relevance of that position.  But also being a good listener within your organization so that people under you are able to surface the issues that matter and then have a substantive impact in on the ground reality.

So, if you have a good understanding of that and you’re willing to listen, it puts you in a much better position to be able to speak and makes other people more likely to listen to you in turn because they register that you’re taking their concerns seriously.

Andrea:  Love it.  Okay, Colin, is there any place that you would like to direct the listener to either find Freshly or even follow you?

Colin Crowley:  Definitely.  Firstly, it’s nice and easy, freshly.com.  We’re up and running and doing very, very well during this period of time.  And we know especially now with the COVID-19 that the interest in getting healthy meals delivered to your door is more frequent than ever.  So, you can visit us right there, and we’d be honored to have people sign up.  I’m freely available on LinkedIn, so people are more than happy to message me and connect, and I’d be happy to start some great conversations.

Andrea:  Great!  And we will link to that all those things in the show notes as well.  Thank you so much for being a voice of influence for our listeners today, Colin.

Colin Crowley:  Thank you.  I appreciate it.

Persuasion, Influence, and Negotiation for Leaders with Nashater Deu Solheim

Episode 137

Nashater Deu Solheim Voice of Influence Andrea Joy Wenburg

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Dr. Nashater Deu Solheim is the author of the new book, The Leadership PIN Code.

As a former forensic psychologist with clinical research in the neuropsychology of criminal minds, she developed a deep interest in effective learning strategies for lasting success. Now, as an expert negotiator who studied at the Program On Negotiations at Harvard Law School, Dr. Solheim has combined her experience as an executive leader in international private companies and government ministries to present The Leadership PIN Code – the definitive guide for helping business leaders secure influence and impactful results.

In this conversation, you’ll hear more about Dr. Solheim’s interesting experience as a clinical psychologist working with incarcerated offenders and then later with people who were exhibiting PTSD symptoms in warzones, the outline and explanation of her framework for The Leadership PIN Code, what it’s like to lead through this difficult time, and how you can use and understand the typical response to sudden change framework to help you understand your own personal response as well as the people who are on your team.

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How to Build the Tenacity to Lead as an Innovative Organization with Debbie Dekleva

Episode 136

Debbie Dekleva Voice of Influence Andrea Joy Wenburg

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Debbie Dekleva is a recent recipient of the Innovator of the Year award from the Nebraska Business Development Council and the Wild Idea Cultivator at Monarch Flyway; a company that makes products out of milkweed. She also founded Sustainable Monarch in which she heads up Monarch Flyway’s habitat conservation and non-profit efforts.

In this episode, Debbie and I discuss how Monarch Flyway got started using milkweed of all things, how I’ve used milkweed balm to help sooth my own children’s pain over the years, how feedback from a cancer patient helped them create their milkweed balm, why they started Sustainable Monarch, how being part of my Voice of Influence Academy “turned on some light bulbs” for her and helped her develop her own voice of influences, how she has handled the many setbacks in her business over the years, and more.

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Andrea:  Debbie, it is great to have you here on the Voice of Influence podcast.

Debbie Dekleva:  Thank you so much for having me, Andrea.

Andrea:  All right, so why don’t you tell us a little bit about your role in your organizations?  I know that you’ve kind of get a couple and maybe you can tell us a little bit how they work together too.

Debbie Dekleva: Sure.  So, I am the Wild Idea Cultivator at Monarch Flyway, and what that means is we make products out of milkweed.  And so, since it’s a pretty abstract thing to be doing, you need to have a lot of ideas and try a lot of different things out.  So, we’re entrepreneurial; we create products and we conserve habitat while we do it.  So, after about thirty years in business, we decided… We do a lot of nonprofit activities.  And so, I founded Sustainable Monarch, and that took over the nonprofit activities that we did of research and education and conservation.

Andrea:  All right, so you’re using milkweed, which around here has never had a great reputation for being a really important kind of a plant.  And how did this get started?  How did you guys get started with milkweed, of all things?

Debbie Dekleva:  Well, I am second-generation of the business and my dad was a patent attorney for Standard Oil of Ohio in Cleveland, Ohio.  And they were trying to develop new usage for all kinds of different things.  And one thing they worked on was creating a bio-fuel out of milkweed, and they learned that was not very economical.  And so my dad took over the vice-presidentship of new ventures, and the milkweed project was one of those ventures.  And so they did all kinds of different inventions with milkweed and thankfully did a lot of the expensive research at Standard Oil of Ohio, but British Petroleum took over the company.  And if it didn’t have to do with petroleum, the project was eliminated.  And, obviously, milkweed is one of those things that did not make the cut for British Petroleum.  So, we decided to move the company out to where milkweed grows really well.  So, going from Ohio, we moved to Nebraska.

Andrea:  And what kinds of products do you make with milkweed?  What’s the possibilities?

Debbie Dekleva:  Well, the possibilities are vast, but when we started with just my dad’s savings account, we did high value, low volume products, which went into down comforters and pillows.  So, the milkweed fiber is hollow and it wicks moisture away from your body so it’s very breathable.  And we mixed the 30% milkweed fiber – which is, like, a soft fluff – in with goose down and that is also soft fluff.  But one obviously is a vegetable and plant material, and then the other one’s an animal byproduct.  And so that increased the natural properties of goose down, and it made it more breathable, and also made it hypoallergenic.  So, milkweed fiber is hypoallergenic by itself and it suppressed the dust and dander that people are allergic to in down.  So, people who normally couldn’t sleep with down products could use the hypo-down product, which is what that is.

So, that was our first value-added business.  And then we knew that the oil had a lot of interesting properties to it as well from the milkweed seed.  And we… actually, my dad, the inventor that he is – a chemist, patent attorney – is always experimenting, and he was scheduled for a hip replacement surgery based on osteoarthritis.  He put some milkweed oil on his hip that was really painful, and it felt better, and it helped him move it better.  And so, he was like, “Oh my gosh, I think this is working.”  And nobody believed him, but we did start asking other people to try to it, and they were, like, “Oh my gosh, this stuff is great.”  So, we learned that oil from the milkweed is a pain reliever.

We don’t really know how that happened or what the active ingredient is that makes that happen, but it is something that we’re going to be taking years and years to study.  But we do have a skin moisturizing milkweed balm that we create in Ogallala, Nebraska.  And we saw that and since we learned that we couldn’t really say it’s a pain reliever, we added some essential oils to it and have our original cream, which is the AnyTime cream; it’s the ClockWork Collection.  And then we’ve got DownTime, which has lavender in it; GameTime, which has a winter green kind of, Bengayish kind of smell to it.  And then we have GoTime, which is a grapefruit and mint scent.  So that is our new items that we have going on the market.

Andrea:  Oh man, I love it.  And I have taken a look at your website since you’ve done some work in the recent months, and I love the new rebrand.  And I’m so excited to try the new way that you’ve packaged this because even the way that you used it in the past with the milkweed balm by itself, you know, we would use it with our kids.  So, if our kids have an ache or pain – or sometimes they have growing pains, that sort of thing – it’s not something you always want to give your kid ibuprofen for.  And so, I’ve had them try the milkweed balm, and they’re like, “Oh, this is really helpful.”  It really is.  It’s very interesting how… I don’t know exactly how it works, like you said, but it seems to work.  It really does help.

Debbie Dekleva:  Right.  Well, thank you so much.  It’s always great to hear stories from people on how they use it.

Andrea:  And I know that you’ve had a lot of people who have other kinds of aches and pains that use milkweed balm, and it felt like it really has made a difference for them.  Can you tell us a little bit about what other kinds of uses there are for it?

Debbie Dekleva:  Yeah.  So, when we first started, we were mixing the milkweed oil with a couple other carrier oils.  And we put out a rollerball, so it’s like a liquid and you had to roll it on – I don’t know if you can envision like a deodorant, but they were smaller – and we had a cancer patient contact us and say, “Okay, I love your products, but it actually hurts to apply the roller ball.  So, can you please put together a cream for me that I can apply easier?”  And, you know, first off, it was shocking that it would be painful to apply.  But cancer patients end up with a lot of bone, muscle, and joint pain from chemotherapy as well as like neuropathy issues.  And so, of course, we’re like, “Oh, it’s gotta be difficult.”  So, we worked with this patient and put together a cream and she was like, “This is it – this is perfect!”

And so, you know, what we wanted to do is have it be effective, but also in a creamy mixture and that’s where the new milkweed balm cream that we have came from.  The genesis was from actually a cancer patient’s request.

Andrea:  All right, and then you have Sustainable Monarch, which is a nonprofit.  How did you get started with that nonprofit and how did they work together?

Debbie Dekleva:  So, we were doing a lot of non-profit activities with Monarch Flyway, which is our business.  And we decided that in order to propel our mission further – which is to conserve monarch butterfly habitat while helping rural communities – we really needed a non-profit arm and take the non-profit activities that we were already doing of habitat, conservation, education and social justice of rural economic development and underserved communities to an actual nonprofit.

And so, that is what we have been working on now in conjunction with the for-profit business.  But our goal is really to help rural communities, and the vision is to have twenty unique milkweed businesses along the migration path of the monarch butterfly, which runs from Mexico to Canada.  So, across North America and have these little cottage industries or even very big businesses that the pipeline is fed by wild harvested milkweed.

Andrea:  Okay, how does that happen?  So, wild harvest with milkweed.  I already kind of know and I feel like that is really interesting piece of what you guys do.

Debbie Dekleva:  Yes.  So, milkweed is a slow-growing perennial, and you just plant it thinking you’re gonna get a harvest like most farmers would; it really doesn’t operate that way.  The best milkweed standards are at least a decade old for production.  So, we find milkweed, and we create value from the milkweed that’s already in place.  We’ve identified a lot more milkweed than we can actually sell, and so what we’re working toward is creating more businesses that will utilize more milkweeds so we can protect more habitats.

So, we would really love to take some of these communities that we’ve been working with, say, in Michigan, and create a business that not only can they go out and collect milkweed as families, it’s actually hand-harvested – just like they did in World War II, where they collected milkweed pods for the war effort, and they used to milkweed fiber in life jackets and flight jackets.

So, it was warm and it also kept servicemen afloat for over a week if their boat sunk or their plane was shot down.  So, it’s really important, almost like the war hero… one of the war heroes from World War II.

Andrea:  Hmm.  That’s so cool.  Okay, so you have recently won an award.  Can you tell us about the Nebraska Business Development Council and the Innovator of the Year award that you just won?

Debbie Dekleva:  So, we were really excited about this.  This is a project that actually started at Standard Oil of Ohio, had its beginnings there.  We knew that you could turn the milkweed fiber into a non-woven.  So, instead of going… like the down that we have is 70% goose down, 30% milkweed, and the non-woven product that we’ve created, it’s actually 80% milkweed fiber and 20% a binder.  And so it’s very thin insulation material. Look for it in a clothing; and it’s probably the first place that it will be.  It’s really thin so maybe sleek clothing, but it would also keep you warm.

So, it’s been tested up against Thinsulate and Primaloft, which are two leading insulators that are 100% synthetic, made out of petroleum-based materials.  And this is obviously 80% natural material that also conserves butterfly habitat and helps people in rural communities.  So, we’re excited to get this launched and have it be readily accepted within the outdoor retailer industry as well as – eventually, when we can get into wider widths – the bedding industry.

Andrea:  Hmm.  Awesome!  Well, congratulations on this award.  That’s fantastic!

Debbie Dekleva:  Thank you so much.  It was a process, and it’s one of those things that we’ve been dreaming about for over thirty years and have finally gotten to the point that we could act on it.  And that was partially true in Nebraska about Business Development Center, where they encourage us to apply for a prototype grant from Department of Economic Development so that we could get this launched – because the more we can use, the more good that we can do in the world.  So, we’re really excited about it.

Andrea:  Cool.  So, this is a podcast about influence, and we bring on people like you, Debbie, to talk about their voice – the things that they really care about.  But sometimes we get to dive a little bit deeper into the person themselves.  And I would love to do that with you because I think that you have gone through a pretty big transformation.  Even though you’ve always had this very strong voice, you know, I know that there have been some shifts in you in the last few years.  Could you share a little bit about how you have seen yourself develop in your own voice of influence?

Debbie Dekleva:  Sure.  So, I really have enjoyed being able to do what I want to do and giving other people credit for a lot of the different ideas and things that I have done.  And actually, I went through the Voice of Influence Academy, and I joined the first master class of Voice of Influence, and that was something that really turned on some light bulbs for me; not only like where I am uniquely capable of doing the different things that I do, but also where I could stand for some major improvement.  And I did the Fascinate Assessment with you.  And what that brought out was my archetype is actually the mastermind.

And first off, I was pretty shocked that my number one was power.  And then my second point was mystique.  So, I do a lot of thinking and background, but I’m trying to develop these really elaborate, complex plans, but I’m more than happy to give other people credit for it, which is really good.  I think sharing credit is really important.

But being second-generation of our family business, I just kind of hit the wingman position so that I was more in the background, but I was working at it all so that it worked out.  And going through that class really gave me the wherewithal to say, “Okay, I’m at a transition point in our business because I’m second-generation.  I’m the one who’s coming up next.  And instead of being the wingman, I actually need to take a leap forward and be the face of the business.”

And so that has been a huge point of growth.  And one of the other things that we did in that was to really focus our message, our core message.  And so, it keeps evolving because I went through it maybe three years ago, and where I am on that now, I always think of the arrow.  Like, “What point am I trying to get people to?”

And what I have come up with is I’m working on profitable prairies that help communities and create value out of biodiversity.  And one of the things that I’m really excited about right now is having that competence to go forward and saying, “Yes, I am actually applying for a Changemakers Act for Biodiversity contest.”  And yet in the past, I’d ever put someone else’s name in it or I try to divert the attention from me and what I do to something else.

And this time, I’m really owning it and I’m going for it, and it’s a global contest.  So, I’m really excited about that.  If anyone wants to go to Changemakers Act for Biodiversity contest, I’d love your vote.

Andrea:  That sounds good.  Yeah, we’ll link to that in the show notes, Debbie, so that people can do that.  I really love that you have been able to kind of recognize the qualities of your voice, and who you really are, and step forward into that even more fully in the last few years.  Of course, you’re in a position where your dad has done so many amazing things with his company and with his ideas, and yet you also have your ideas, and you’ve been able to utilize those and utilized your gifts to really help the company move forward from here.  And that is so exciting because when we step behind and diminish our voice and diminish our gifts and what we’re doing, then it makes it really hard for us to move forward.

Debbie Dekleva:   Right.  And I think learning about yourself and what makes you tick and seeing maybe some of your blind spots – or really, let’s call it what it is, insecurities – it’s like, “Okay, I need to fail more.  I need to go out there and not be so afraid of rejection, and not be so afraid of putting myself out there.”  And one thing that I always hear you say that I love is what do you have to offer to the world and you need to present.  And people can either take it or run with it or they can refuse it; but having it offered gives you the opportunity, and then the opportunity to grow and do better and make more things happen.

Andrea:  Yeah, because if we don’t offer it, most of the time, people don’t know that it’s there.  I know that that’s something that I have seen over and over again is that people want other people to pick them.  They want to feel like they’ve been discovered, but the truth is that we can’t be discovered if we don’t put ourselves out there, which therefore means that we’re going to get rejected at some point or at a lot of points.

I loved your statement that you want to get out there and fail more at more stuff.  You said that to me earlier, and I was like, “Yes, get out there and fail at more stuff.”  Not because you’re trying to go fail, but because it’s inevitable that you’re going to be rejected a bunch of times in order to get to the win a few times.  It’s just the way it goes.

Debbie Dekleva:  Exactly.  And that is a fear of failure, fear of rejection.  It has been just a mainstay of my life, really.  And the more I go out there and the more I say, “Hey, if this is what I have to offer,” I’m actually getting accepted more, right – probably because I’m trying.  It makes it like you said.  If no one knows what you have to offer, they can’t accept it or they’re not going to discover you because, you know, I’m hiding behind the rock of protection.  You know, what am I protecting myself from?

And in some ways, you know, I’ve been struggling at this for thirty years.  And it’s almost like, “Oh, my gosh, what am I gonna do when this hits and it’s successful?”  And we are at a tipping point right now that I have to make myself keep going out there and keep going out there.  And partially, it’s because what really inspires me are the communities that we work with and the meaningful impact that we have in the lives of underserved communities.  Like I said, the more that we can use milkweed and commerce, the more habitat we can protect, the more people we can help, the better the environment’s going to be.

Andrea:  Hmm.  You know, you just brought up a really important point, and that is what’s the point of putting yourself out there and offering who you are and everything if it’s just about you?  If it’s about the bigger picture, if there’s a deeper sense of purpose behind what you do, then you’re going to be more willing to put yourself out there.  If you remember that – if you keep that in front of you – and so that’s what you keep doing.  Every time we talk about this, you have those people in mind, those people that are going to harvest the milkweed, the people that are going to be helped by the products and the habitat and the monarch butterflies that are going to be able be sustained – their habitat that will be sustained because of what you’re doing.  And when there is that deeper purpose, man, it just makes it a lot more meaningful, doesn’t it?

Debbie Dekleva:  It does, it does.  I would do what I do for free because I feel so strongly and so convicted about how we can make the world a better place through market-based solutions, which is just using the natural resources around us; not in an extractive way, but in a regenerative way.  So, we can regenerate these communities that, you know, most of the businesses in those communities are boarded up because the people are leaving the area.

And that’s just so many, so many different ways that we can help in a very holistic way.  And we always have talked from the beginning, “How many wins can we create?”  You know, like, we want the win for the customer, the win for the people picking the pods, the win for our company, the win for the environment.  How many ways can we touch people that makes them better for being part of what we’re doing?

Andrea:  Yeah, that’s very inspiring.  Debbie, I know that there have been some setbacks over the years.  Can you tell us about how you handle setbacks?  I mean, you just keep going.  You’re the energizer bunny.  You keep going.  You know, you have an idea, you put it into play; maybe it works, maybe it doesn’t.  If it doesn’t, you just keep finding the new thing.  You find something else and keep going.  How do you keep going?

Debbie Dekleva:  Well, one thing that helps me is I’m an idea person.  So, I’ve never had a lack of things that I feel like could happen.  The world is full of possibilities.  If you don’t like that idea, I’ve got ten more right behind it.

Andrea:  So, the “world is full of possibilities” kind of thing.

Debbie Dekleva:  So, setbacks are really, really tough when I’ve gone after an idea and after an idea and after an idea, and I’m – like you said – very persistent with that and then realizing, “This is not going to work.”  And so you have to go, I call it drop back fifteen and punt. Like, “What’s gonna come next?”  But you’re right, it’s more about an attitude of, “Okay, we’re gonna get up and we’re gonna do our best and move forward.”  We’re the longest-standing milkweed company – where, like, that’s our purpose, it’s milkweed – in the history of the world.  And one of the things that we have found are a whole lot of things not to do.  And I think that failure is just part of the process.  So, when you’re doing something that no one’s ever really successfully done before, tenacity is probably the biggest contributor to success.

Andrea:  Hmm, love it.  So, Debbie, if you could offer some extra last word for the listener who wants to have a voice of influence, what would you say to them?

Debbie Dekleva:  Well, I think that, first, knowing who you are and what makes you tick, which a lot of people take for granted.  I think that a lot of people don’t do the deep dive in themselves.  And really, until I did the Fascinate Assessment and we delved into the Myers-Briggs kinds of things and learning what makes me tick, I’m like, “Okay, this is why I gravitate toward this.”  I really feel like if you want to make a difference and you want to use your talents to the best of your ability, self-discovery is critical because you can see so many more blind spots or so many ways that you might be able to improve upon what you’re doing that you wouldn’t have seen if you didn’t have the knowledge of yourself.

Andrea:  Hmm, love it.  Well, thank you, Debbie.  Thank you so much for your voice of influence in my life, and for your nudges along the way, and for just demonstrating for us what it looks like to be tenacious and go for it.

Debbie Dekleva:  Thank you so much, Andrea.  It’s been my pleasure.

How I Got Started with a Brand Online

Episode 135

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In the past couple of months, probably because of some articles that have come out and some of the opportunities that I’ve had to speak to this, I’ve gotten more questions again about, “How did you get started? What do I need to know if I would like to start a brand online, if I would like to write a book, and if I would like to get going in this thought leadership kind of space?”

So, today, as we’re near the three-year anniversary of Voice of Influence, Rosanne and I thought it would be fun to sit down and have a chat about the journey I’ve been on.  Because going back and looking at that more clearly and with more detail could be helpful to somebody who is really interested in knowing how they can go on this journey for themselves.

In this episode, we discuss the timeline of my personal journey, the mindset it took to get over the hump so that I could get started, the mindset it has taken to continue plodding down this path, the immense value of bringing other expert perspectives in on your process, what you need to know to get started, what I would tell myself if I could go back six years, and more!

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Transcript

People of influence know that their voice matters, and they work to make it matter more.  I’m Andrea Wenburg, and this is the Voice of Influence podcast.

In the past couple of months, probably because of some articles that have come out and some of the opportunities that I’ve had to speak to this, I’ve gotten more questions again about, “How did you get started?  What do I need to know if I would like to start a brand online, if I would like to write a book, and if I would like to get going in this thought leadership kind of space?”

So, today, because we’re kind of at that three-year anniversary mark of Voice of Influence, Rosanne and I thought it would be fun to sit down and just kind of have a discussion about the journey that I’ve been on.  Because going back and looking at that more clearly and with more detail could be helpful to somebody who is really interested in knowing how they can go on this journey for themselves.

So, today, we are going to talk about the timeline of my personal journey, and then we’re going to dive into mindset – the mindset that it took to kind of get over the hump so that I could get started, and then the mindset that it has taken to continue to plod down this path.  And plodding is sometimes how it has felt.  It’s not a quick and easy journey; it is something that it’s so worth it if you feel like you really have a mission, but it is hard.

So, I applaud anybody who is feeling that call, that urge to do something and you’re ready to take that next step, so that is part of what we’ll talk about.  We’ll talk about what kind of mindset and heartset, I guess, it would take to continue down a journey like that.

We also talked about the immense value of bringing other expert perspectives in on your process.  There are a lot of ways that I did this – including listening to courses, and books, and podcasts, and taking courses – but one, in particular, was actually bringing Rosanne on.  And I’ll share with you a little bit more about our relationship – how she and I worked together, and how helpful it has been to our process.

We’ll talk about what you need to know to get started.  And then finally, if I could go back six years, what would I tell myself back then?  I hope you enjoy this little journey to the past and that it might be helpful for your journey.

Here’s my conversation with Rosanne:

Rosanne: Hi, this is Rosanne Moore at Voice of Influence.  I’m the Communication Specialist here, and today we’re going to be doing something a little different.  I’m going to be interviewing Andrea as we’ve had a lot of questions from listeners for Andrea regarding how should someone who has a voice that they want to expand upon, a mission or vision that they want to share more widely, how does someone like that get started. And what did that journey look like for Andrea?  We’re coming up on our third year anniversary of the podcast, and so that’s what we’re going to be talking about today.

Andrea:  That’s right.  I really can resonate with these folks.  I understand where you’re coming from.  If you’re somebody who is in that position where you’re like, “I feel like I’ve got something else to share.”  Or “I have this message and I need to get it out into the world.”  I know exactly what you’re feeling because I remember about… Rosanne, this is interesting because about I’d say almost nine years ago, I was at a gathering for young moms and a speaker came, and she spoke to us and shared about her book.  And I was just like, “Ohh, I feel like I should be up there doing the same thing.”  I just had the sense of like, “I need to be doing that.”  And I remember going up to her afterwards and be like “How did you get started?”  So, I totally understand where you’re coming if you’re somebody that’s thinking this, and that’s the reason why we really want to dive into this today.

Rosanne:  So, Andrea, for you, what was the timeline of developing your vision and your company?

Andrea:  That’s an interesting question, because, I mean, if it really developed over the course of the last six years or so.  I’d say that I kind of knew that I wanted to speak and write and things like that all growing up.  And anytime I had the opportunity to speak or to lead a small group or to provide a retreat or something like that, I would jump at that opportunity.  And then I kind of got into that place where I was, you know, a stay-at-home mom.  My kids were just getting to the point where I felt like I could breathe again.  My daughter was in school and my son was going to preschool, and my husband and I decided, “Okay, let’s take preschool time, at least feel free to take that time to actually do some writing – to work on developing some things.”

So, I started developing things back in 2013; I was developing a curriculum called Intentional Friendship.  And that’s when I went to the movie Frozen, and it just sort of catapulted me into a different level of, “Oh my gosh, I can’t just try to stay behind the scenes and offer some sort of writings without putting myself out there.  I’m gonna have to really put myself out there in order to have a bigger influence.”  That was 2013.

A year later, I wrote my first blog post because it took me that long to figure out what in the world I wanted to say and how I was going to say it.  Right around that same time, I had a friend that said, “You really need to write a book about this – people need to hear what you have to say.”  So, at that point, I kind of got the vision for writing a book, but I knew I needed to blog first.  Basically, asked the question, “How I do even know what to do next?  How do I do this if I’m going to write a book?”

So, I started doing a research and I found out I needed to blog first, so I started blogging.  I tried to start an email list that sort of thing in 2014.  By 2016… you know well because you edited my book and guided me along that journey.  In August of 2016, we released Unfrozen.  And then in spring of 2017 is when we started the podcast.  And that was really when the vision for doing something more than an online business but also really starting to put myself out there in a bigger way, in corporate, was kind of when that was born.

Rosanne:  Okay, so as someone’s hearing all of that, they may be thinking, “Wow, that feels overwhelming,” but you didn’t do that all at once.  You did it in pieces.  What kind of mindset and what kind of skill sets are needed for someone who’s wanting to develop a vision, who has an idea, who wants to expand their voice of influence?  What do they need?  What are the pieces do they need?

Andrea:  Okay, I think that’s a really good designation, mindset and skill set.  The first thing that someone needs to do is look at their mindset in terms of, “Do they really believe that they are called?”  Do you feel called – that this is a big enough deal that you’re willing to put yourself on the line for this mission, whatever the mission might be?  I would say that I didn’t know what my mission was.  I felt like I was supposed to have a voice of influence; I didn’t call it that at the time.  I felt like I was supposed to have that, but I didn’t know what the mission actually was.

So, whether you actually defined that yet for yourself or you just feel called, if you will, “into the unknown” as Elsa would experience in Frozen 2, you don’t even know what’s out there.  You just hear the calling.  If you’re feeling that way, then you need to decide now that you’re willing to do what it takes to get to the end.  Because if you start there with a determination that you’re not going to let just every little, I guess, like speed bump and blockade in the road keep you from getting to that end goal, if you decide that now then that is going to benefit you throughout the whole long road ahead.

Because it is a long road, and you kind of have to say to yourself, “I am willing to play the long game.  This is a big enough deal.  I feel called.  I’m willing to play the long game whatever gets in my path, I will navigate it.  We will figure it out.”  And so, I think mindset for sure when you get started.  That’s a very important one.

Rosanne:  The difference between a dream and a goal is intentionality – it sounds like you’re saying – and perseverance because dreams don’t just come true.  They are created through hard work.

Andrea:  Yeah.  I think it’s a really good distinction because a dream is sort of something that would fulfill you – and that’s not bad to be fulfilled – but a goal and being intentional about a goal that is mission-oriented is way different than having a dream.  There’s a whole another level of intentionality and purpose and drive that comes with that than it is to just simply have a dream thinking that, you know, “It would be fun or it would be nice if…”  No, no, that’s sort of setting yourself up for a failure.

Rosanne:  Yeah, and I’ve heard people coming to the end of their life often look back with regret, not over with the things that they did as much as what they didn’t do.  And that’s what kind of what you’re talking about.  They can’t just assume that it will come to pass because they wished it.  There needs to be an actual movement.

Andrea:  Rosanne, I’m really glad that you brought that up because that was actually a really big piece of my story.  My mom – when she was in her late fifties, I started really noticing that she was having memory issues.  And I knew that she was headed down a path that was going to be very difficult.  And eventually, she was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, and when that happened, I was in my mid-thirties.  And I thought to myself, “Oh my goodness, what if…”  I’m not determining that I’m going to get Alzheimer’s or anything, but I think we can take moments like that and say to ourselves, “What if that were me?  If that were me in twenty years, I’ve only got twenty years.  If I’m here for something, if I’m supposed to have some sort of impact in the world, I got to get on it because…”

Rosanne:  You were no longer just assuming that you’d have time.

Andrea:  Yeah, yeah, exactly.  Now, all of a sudden, my mortality – you know, because of my mom’s situation – my own mortality was sort of in my face.  And I realized that, “Oh my gosh, I don’t have time to worry about what other people think anymore.”  And that was really significant.  I think that if we could each do that… you know, maybe you’ve had somebody that you’ve lost.  And I’m talking to you, listener, right now.  Maybe you had somebody that you’ve lost.  Maybe you have seen somebody else go through tragedy – you don’t have to personally go to tragedy to let that impact you.

You can look at that and say, “Oh my gosh, what if that were me,” and allow yourself to imagine it.  I know that Gary Vaynerchuk is somebody that I have paid pretty close attention to over the years.  He’s an entrepreneur.  He’s had a lot of success, like really a lot of success.  If you haven’t heard of him, go look him up.  You will quickly find out.  But what he often does is he pictures tragedy happening in his life so that he can sort of be grounded in why he’s still doing what he’s doing and how blessed he is that he has the opportunity today.

And I think that that is exactly what happened to me.  I was like “Oh my gosh the opportunity is now.  I just can’t keep putting it out there in terms of, ‘Well, someday maybe somebody will pick me to write this book or to speak at this thing.’”  I mean, all of a sudden, I was like, “No, if you feel called, you have to go do the work.  You have to put yourself out there to do the work.”

Rosanne:  That’s a good point; that things don’t just come to us, that we have to be a part of actively moving toward what we’re called to.  So, if a person has that mindset, if they’re recognizing that they’re ready and they’re willing to engage, what skills are they going to need?

Andrea:  Well, I think it just depends on where you’re at in the moment.  So, if you are feeling like you really want to write a book, then you need to start researching how to write a book.  And I think that the tendency that I’ve seen in people who think that they want to do something, but then they don’t end up doing it…  The tendency for them is to invest only so far and to sort of dabble on it for a little while and never really truly commit.

Something that my husband and I decided early on was that we were going put our, like, actual finances on the line to invest in things like coaching or invest in a course that would help me to know how to put a book on Amazon, how to sell a book.  So, those were different things that kind of came up for me at the time.  What’s the next thing that I need to know?  I remember the very first course I bought was an online course from Michael Hyatt, and it was about getting your book published.

So, I listened to that full course and I realized, “Oh my gosh, I need a build an email list because publishers aren’t going to be interested in my book unless I have a really big email list, like tens of thousands of people.”  And then to me, that made it sound like, “Okay, I’m not gonna be able to do that right away.”  That seemed daunting to me.  So, I decided immediately to write a book and self-publish it because I knew I wouldn’t be able to build an email list that quickly, as quickly as I wanted to for this particular book that I wanted to write.  So then I said to myself, “Okay, what’s the next thing I wanted to learn?”

Rosanne:  So, you were saying that for a traditional publisher that was what you would need was the big email list, the platform already built.  Is that why you chose to self-publish?

Andrea:  Right, and there were other options.  Now, there are increasing amount of options.  So, big publishers also have a division in their company where it’s essentially self-publishing with a name or an arm of their division kind of tied to it.  Sometimes you pay a fee in order to get the coaching that you need or in order to have the book published so it can actually go into stores and that sort of thing, but you don’t have all of the support of a publisher to do that.  So, there are a lot of different options for how you can get a book published or publish it yourself.  And what I knew at that time was that I was going to go the self-publishing route.

Rosanne:  So then what’s next?

Andrea:  So, the next thing I decided to do was to look up, “Okay, how do I self-publish the book?”  And I found Self Publishing School with Chandler Bolt and invested in that.  We invested in that.  And when I started that, I had one vision in mind for where I wanted to go with this book, and then I brought you on board.  I think I want to talk briefly about how you got involved with Unfrozen, because I asked you to edit.  I said, “Here’s about 30,000 words,” or I don’t know what I had and I was like, “Would you edit this for me?”  Do you remember what it was like when I asked you that question?

Rosanne:  I do.  I do.  Yes, because basically, you had gotten your first draft done.  And it was such a relief, it was an accomplishment, but it was a first draft.  So it was kind of your first brain dump on paper, and when you asked me to get involved, I thought ,“How do I both encourage you but also kind of set your sights on what we’re going to need to do – what the process is going to need to look like?”  Because you were just like, “Huh, first draft done; let’s publish a book.”  And I was like, “Um, actually the work has just begun.”  But I couldn’t say that.  Do you remember the analogy I used?  What I said was, “This is kind of like you just peed on the stick and found out you’re pregnant, and you’ve got a baby, and it’s awesome, and it’s wonderful, and it is so precious and valuable; but we’ve got to give it some time to grow.”

Andrea:  Yes, develop it.  Yeah, yeah, before it can be birthed into the world.  One thing that I want you, the listener, to know is that by bringing Rosanne on board, I really leveled up my game.  It went from being something that I was just going to throw out there to being something that would be significant and have significance, both for my voice and my brand and all of that as well as for the reader.

And the reason why I asked Rosanne to help with it was because I knew that she was a good editor.  She and I had taken a course together, so we had a lot of the same teachings in our minds, and I knew that she would understand my perspective.  So, I trusted her, but then I also knew that she was good at what she did.  And I’d given her an article previously to edit for me because I was submitting it to an online publication, and she had done that.  And working with her went really well, and I was really pleased with the outcome.

And so, I knew that she both had the skills but then also had the heart and the same perspective in order to help me really level this up and that’s exactly what happened.  So, I think that the big lesson, I hope that you as a listener hear from this, is whether it’s a book or whatever it might be that you’re interested in putting out there, bring people alongside you who believe in you but are also really good at what they do to help you level up your game.

Rosanne:  And I think one of the things I offered you was you had so many good ideas.  You had so much to say and you have so many good ideas.  But for the purpose of the book, we needed to figure out, “Where do we narrow things and put our energy so that the reader can actually digest the core message of what this project needs to look like?”  And I think so often with creative people – this is true for all of us, because you do the same thing for me, you know, I’ll have ideas and you act as my editor or my sounding board or whatever and you help focus – what is the core message for this project so that it’s useful to the reader or to the listener, instead of just kind of being like a scattershot that doesn’t really have the impact that we want it to have.

Andrea:  Absolutely.  I think, Rosanne, that’s what we do for companies too, you know.

Rosanne:  It is.

Andrea:  Like, when we come in and work with an executive, they have a change initiative that they’re trying to accomplish, or they’re wanting their teams to be more effective with customers or clients and developing those relationships.  Oh, my goodness, it’s not that they don’t know what to do ever; it’s that there are so much on their plates that they are having hard time being able to narrow down, make decisions, think strategically, all that kind of thing.  And that’s why we need other people involved in our projects, involved in our lives.

Rosanne:  Right.  And we lived with ideas in our own heads so much that we don’t always see the holes in how we’re communicating them.  And so it takes somebody else going, “I’m not really sure what you mean there,” for us to realize, “Oh, that totally makes sense to me because I’ve been living with it for six months in my head, but I need to find a way to articulate that so that somebody who hasn’t been living with it for six months in their head can understand and get on board and see the value of it.”

And we do that.  Andrea does a great job with that with companies that we work with all the time.

Andrea:  Yeah, a couple of analogies that I’ve heard over the years are, “It’s pretty hard to read the label when you are inside of the bottle.”  So that would be Donald Miller.  And then, of course, you’ve probably heard this one before, which is, “Even the sharpest knife can’t sharpen its own blade.”  I don’t know.  Anyway, you actually have to have another knife there to sharpen the blade is the point.  I think the other thing that really shifted for me and the trajectory of my path in bringing you on board was that I sort of submitted it to this bigger vision.  Instead of saying I need to be right and I need to do what I wanted to do and utilize my own perspective to get me there, I said “Rosanne, this is the vision.”

And then we connected there.  I have my hands on the air together up at the top, and that’s what I’m physically doing with my body right now – you know, hands on either side of me and then going up and then meeting in the middle.  That’s where we could meet was at the level of vision.  Then you’re saying to me, “Andrea, in order to get that vision, the path that you’re trying to take is not gonna get you there.”  And so you could see something greater.  You could see how that vision could actually come to play if we really created something beautiful and significant with that book, and that’s what we did.

And so, I think that that again for you, the listener, who is saying to yourself, “I want to create something.”  You can go with your own vision and you can create your own path, but I would suggest that you actually submit to that bigger picture, that bigger vision, and that bigger mission.  Because if you do that on a regular basis and you give other people the opportunity to give you input and to actually have an impact on the trajectory of where you’re headed then it changes everything and it allows you to realize that that’s not about you.  It’s about your mission.

And the more that you do that and put yourself in that position to be able to take in advice, to take in perspectives… I hesitate to say that because I shouldn’t say the more that you do that, but if you do that in a way that allows you to sort of submit to that bigger vision, it’s going to make a huge difference in your trajectory.

Rosanne:  I think that’s true.  And for you, one of the interesting parts of your journey – and I think this probably true for a lot of people – you were initially going to bring insight.  You were going to share insight.  And when I read your manuscript, I realized, “This is not just insight; like you can’t produce it in a vacuum.”  Like you, what your journey has been, how you gained this insight has so much more weight than if you just tossed the ideas out there.

Andrea:  That’s right.

Rosanne:  And so another thing that can happen when you have another person’s perspective is you may be selling yourself cheap; like you may have your idea that you want to share and you’re kind of timid about it.  Our listeners may be feeling like, “I don’t know if other people will see the value in this.  I’m really excited.  I can’t really seem to get traction.”  Part of that may be because, like, there’s a substance to you that you have to put out there – you have to be willing to be open and not protect yourself from bringing that part of you to the front to carry the weight of that idea forward.

And so having somebody else who can see the substance that’s in you and say, “Don’t sell yourself short, you have something to say.  It’s important – people need to hear it.  There something of value here for the world,” can really take things to a different level.

Andrea:  And you know, Rosanne, I think even just fast-forwarding to when you came on board with Voice of Influence on a more regular basis… a lot of people who are entrepreneurs, they hire assistance to be able to take care of the little things.  And my very first hire with Voice of Influence was you.  I mean, there were some things like obviously getting this podcast out there.  I work with somebody as a contractor to Britany Felix who does the editing, and then have somebody who works on the transcript – Cecilia – and then your daughter helps us out as well.  You know, there are things that I did get help with immediately that I knew if I could give those to somebody else, they would be taken care of well, and then I could focus my time someplace else.

But the reason why I wanted you to come on board very quickly and early on is because I knew that you would bring that other perspective that would really further our vision or our mission in a way that would be significant.  So that’s the reason why I wanted you to be that first person to bring on board as an employee essentially or a teammate in this journey because I see you as a strategic value to our company, and to me personally.

Rosanne:  I have certainly enjoyed the process and working with you has been a unique experience for me because you really do – I’ve said this before, but it’s not flattery, it’s the truth and it’s something I really appreciate – you practice the culture that you teach.  You do value the voices of others, and so that makes a really fun, fulfilling experience to work with you and for you.  So, I appreciate that as well.  Are there other skill sets that a person… that you want to bring out?   We can chat forever.

Andrea:  I know, I know we could.  Yeah.  So, if we were to go back, then…  So, I think that we really covered a lot of the mindset stuff.  That’s really important, and there’s always mindset stuff as you go.  I think it’s important to take in those voices that are positive that are going to help you and encourage you along your path.  So, that might be through podcasts.  If you’re listening to this one, my guess is you like listening to podcasts; and there a lot of them out there that would be very helpful and that could give both mindset help as an encouragement as well as, you know, help with the actual skills that you need to get you where you want to go.

So, take in as much as you can.  If you’re really a reader, then go for the blog post and for the transcripts.  If you love listening to things… and for the books, the actual physical books where you get to read.  I’m more of a listener and so I’d prefer to listen to podcasts.  We listen to audio books all the time, and that’s how I do my reading, and that’s how I take in my information or I watch videos.  So, take in all those voices and all the advice that you can to help you continue down that path of having a positive mindset and understanding how to embrace this journey that you’re on.

Then when we look at the skill set, every step of the way, there’s a next thing that I needed to learn.  It was a little overwhelming at first.  When people ask me now, “What should I do?  What’s the easiest way to put up a website?”  That just feels so overwhelming to folks.  The thing that I had been told and that we still do… I don’t really know the best advice is on this currently.  You would want to talk to or listen to somebody else that deals with this all the time, but what I did is I created a WordPress.org blog.

So, WordPress.org allows you to own your own website, which is super important.  If you want WordPress.com, it’s free.  That’s fine, but you don’t own your own site.  And to own your own real estate online is super important.  So, to have a WordPress.org website or something similar that would allow you to blog or to share videos or podcast episodes.

And then after you kind of got a website kind of figured out, you’ve got to decide which social media channels you’re going to focus on.  I suggest choosing one or two just to start out with and start posting your thoughts – putting yourself out there little by little or maybe you’re somebody who likes to jump in headfirst; that’s great.  I used canva.com to create images.  They have lots of pictures that you can use, and they have tutorials on how to create images or video sometimes that sort of thing.

But anyway, they’re free unless you need to go deeper into their services, but Canva is a great place to learn how to do those images and to create those.  And then put them on your website or put them on social media, and start putting yourself out there.  You can do it on your personal page or you can create, like for Facebook, you can create a public page that is for your new brand.

And so that’s what I did.  I started Andrea Joy Wenburg public page.  And at the time, Facebook was at a perfect time to be able to share post and get a following and that sort of thing.  It’s a little more complicated now.  You should probably just follow somebody or talk to somebody who knows a lot more about the landscape of social media right now.

One the people that I would recommend following would be April Beach.  She has the SweetLife podcast.  And so if you’re interested in doing an online business, she is the perfect person to listen to for that.  And she is kind of a little bit of a rebel, and she’ll push you out of your comfort zone in a good way.  But I’ve had her here on this podcast before.  So, she can give you a lot more of that kind of technical details.

But essentially, you want to find out what the next thing is that you need.  You need to figure out what it is that you need, and then go find it and figure out how to do it.

Rosanne:  That’s one of the nice things about the internet, isn’t it?  It can be overwhelming at times to sort through all of the options, but there is a lot of information available now and even videos that will walk you through a process of how to set things up or things like that.

Andrea:  That’s right.  And you know, I’m a big advocate for also asking for help.  That might mean that you need to pay for help.  And one of the things that I learned early on was that if I pay for a little bit, I’m going to get a really cheap product.  I’m going to get not a lot of help.  And if I invest more into something, it’s more likely that I’m going to get a lot of out it.  And so, you have to kind of decide what can you do, what are you willing to do.  A lot of people want a nickel and dime starting a business.

If you thought about starting a business in your local community, you would need a building.  You would need a way to payroll.  You’d need an accountant.  You’d need all these things you need.  You’d need so many things.  If you have a viable business idea, you’d go and you’d get a bank loan and you would start a business based with that.  It’s not that you need to go get a bank loan to have a message out into the world, but just take that perspective a little bit.  Like, if you’re running to build something significant, you might have to invest significantly.  So that’s something to keep in mind.

Rosanne:  How important is a business plan in this?  Was that a part of what you did?

Andrea:  Eventually, yes and initially, no.  Initially, it was just about getting the message out.  But then I started to realize that it was going to take a lot to get the message out, that I was going to need to learn a lot, and I was going to need strategy and things that didn’t come easily or quickly or cheaply.  And so then it became, “Oh, I need to actually…this has to be sustainable.  Somehow or another, this has to be self-sustaining.  I can’t just dump a bunch of money in here and not be able to, you know, it’s not like our family charity.”  I think it could be if you decide for it to be.

But for us, we wanted it to grow.  We wanted it to be much, much bigger than what we could, you know, do as a family charity.  So, we had to decide that we were going to invest so that we could also make money, so that it could become a self-sustaining situation.  And then eventually, we decided, “You know what, we actually don’t want to just be self-sustaining.  This needs to be a viable business because we want to actually hire people to be a part of it and we want to be able to give back out of the business.  We want to be that big.  We want to be significant and that kind of way too.”

So, what was your initial question that you just asked me, Rosanne?  I feel like I got off onto a tangent.

Rosanne:  No, you did fine.  You did fine.  I’m trying to remember what I asked.  Business plan – that was what I asked.

Andrea:  Oh yeah, yeah.  So, if you’re looking at starting something, instead of focusing on a business plan, I think you need to start with brand strategy.  And that we’ve talked a lot about a lot on this podcast already.  And that has to do with knowing what your mission is, your purpose, your message; and then how you’re going to go about getting it out into the world.  And that kind of work – we’ve done a lot of work with folks on that, and we can help you with that too.

Rosanne:  That’s one question that we get a fair amount, isn’t it?  How to choose whether or not to have a personal brand, or a more mission or company-oriented brand.  Do you want to address that, just briefly?

Andrea: Sure.  So, basically, I suggest to everybody that they have a personal brand anyway, because whatever you create as your personal brand is always yours.  And it will be yours forever.  So, it’s super important to build something that is true to who you are so that it can stick with you, and it doesn’t have to shift greatly.  And what am I doing has changed a lot over the past six years but my personal brand – I’ve felt a little bit of an identity crisis with that over the years too.  But I’m kind of coming back to a point where I’m like, “This is actually really consistent throughout the whole time since I started intentionally creating this personal brand.”  And though Voice of Influence is its own brand, I’m sort of the face of that brand.

And so when you’re thinking about that – if you’re wanting to have like a company where there are more people involved or you’re wanting it bigger than yourself – then it’s great to have a brand name like Voice of Influence that is bigger than yourself.  But somebody is going to have to be the face of that brand for it to really resonate online.  That’s my personal opinion about that.  I’m sure that you can find examples where that’s not the case, but they’re rare.  And it’s just way easier for people to connect with a brand when there’s a personality, when there’s a person involved unless you’re really, really big company and you can create Baby Nut.  Those of you who don’t know that’s the new Planters peanut icon, and Baby Nut has its own Twitter feed.  It’s really fascinating.  You should go check that out.  You can do that.  You could try that, but it’s really hard.  It’s really hard, and it’s expensive to try to compete with the big brands in that way.

Rosanne:  So, as we kind of pull all this together, I think you’ve given some great information and a great response to the questions that we’ve gotten.  I’m just curious, as you look back on your own journey – the process, the things that you’ve learned along the way – is there anything you wish you had known at the outset or anything you wished you’ve done differently?  What changes might you have made?

Andrea:  I think that if there were something that I would go back and tell myself, it would be that, “You know way more than you think.”  There’s so many times that people would ask me questions about what I thought about things or what I wanted to do, and I don’t know.  I don’t know and I would say, “I don’t know,” all the time.  And when I would get into a situation where I wanted help with something and I did maybe hire somebody to help me with strategy or, you know, something along those lines…

Other than you so, I’m not talking about you in this case, Rosanne.  If you go in front of a guru kind of a person, they love to be able to have answers for people right off the top of their head.  They love to be able to share their really great ideas with you, and then assume that you’re going to and apply them and assume that they’re going to work for you.

But what I found is that that’s not always the case.  And I personally get really frustrated when I’m not heard – when I feel like the person that I’ve hired to help me with something has not taken the time, and I guess, humility to sit back, and listen enough and long enough to understand where I’m really coming from, and in order to be able to offer an idea or offer advice that would be super helpful and would apply to me.

Rosanne:  That’s so important on so many levels, isn’t it?  When we feel like someone’s trying to fix something that’s not what’s broken or tweak something that that’s not what we came for.  That importance of hearing and understanding what’s really needed is so valuable.

Andrea:  Yeah.  And I think that one of the things I’ve seen in other people is they spend a lot of money to go work with a guru or to go work with a really good strategist, but they don’t already know what they want.  They go into it not knowing what they really want.  And so they haven’t communicated clearly what they’re trying to get to.  And so the person who’s trying to help them gives them the answer to the question that they’ve asked or they give them the strategy that’s going to get them to the place where they said they want to go, but that’s not actually where they wanted to go in the first place.

So, I think that if you’re starting out, that is what you want to get clear on from the get-go is what you actually want – what do you actually want to accomplish because there are plenty of people out there who can tell you how to start a podcast.  Do you want to start a podcast?  You know, there are plenty of people out there who could tell you how to build a business based on coaching.  Do you really want to be a coach?  There are plenty of people who could tell you how to build a business where you can end up with maybe fifteen people on your team – a really big business, but is that a kind of business that you actually want?  Or do you want to just have a personal brand kind of business?

So, I think getting to the core of what you actually want is incredibly important and to keep checking in with that, keep going back and asking yourself, “What do I really want here?”  And before you work with somebody, before you spend money on working with somebody, ask that question, you know, “What do I actually want to accomplish?”  And if you’re not sure of that answer, you should hire somebody to help you figure that out or even just keep asking.  Have somebody else there that you know that you can trust who can keep asking you the question, “Okay, is that what you really want?”

And if you can have that voice that’s going to help you discern that as you go, it’s going to help you to make decisions more quickly and to gather the advice that you actually need to get you where you want to go.

Rosanne:  So you need clarity on your vision or your mission before you can get clarity on the path to take to get there.

Andrea:  Absolutely, yes.  Which is why we have spent a lot of time here talking about – on the podcast – talking about personal brand strategy because that is such a big piece of knowing how to get to where you want to go.

Rosanne:  Thank you, Andrea.  That is so good.  As we wrap this up, is there anything else you want to tell our listeners?  Anything else that comes to mind that you want to leave them with?

Andrea:  If your message is that important, then it’s worth batting out to figure out what it is.  It’s worth wading through the chaos and just trying to figure out what the next thing is.  It’s worth the effort.  And if it’s not worth the effort to you, then it’s probably… you know, if you look at that long road ahead and you’re like, “I don’t know if it’s worth all that,” then I would question whether it’s worth trying in the first place.  There might be a different way for you to have purpose in this world then to feel like you need to, you know, have a podcast and a book or speak or whatever it might be.  Get clear on what it is that you actually want and what’s actually worth paying the price for and then go do it

Rosanne:  Thank you so much, Andrea.  And if today’s discussion has sparked interest in getting Andrea’s help with brand strategy or building a team that has clarity of vision and mission, get in touch with us at voiceofinfluence.net.  We would love to be able to work with you.

Andrea:  Thank you so much, Rosanne.