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		<title>Why I DON&#8217;T Think You Should Be Vulnerable</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2017 16:24:14 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description><![CDATA[Do you hear people talk about &#8220;vulnerability&#8221; as though it&#8217;s something we ought to be? I used to, but I&#8217;ve changed my perspective on vulnerability. Listen to this audio explanation or read the transcript below. Do you think you should be vulnerable? I recorded this audio for you. You can listen to it by pressing play [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>The Prerequisite to Empowering Others</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2016 13:12:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[I just got a call from our daughter’s school. Amelia forgot her glasses. Ugh. Those glasses are special glasses to help her eyes focus so she can read. Reading is pretty important in elementary school, so I hear. Immediately my heart sank and I began thinking on the dark side… How did I not notice she didn’t [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I just got a call from our daughter’s school. Amelia forgot her glasses. Ugh. Those glasses are special glasses to help her eyes focus so she can read. Reading is pretty important in elementary school, so I hear. Immediately my heart sank and I began thinking on the dark side… How did I not notice she didn’t [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>Not So Great Expectations</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2015 13:19:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[How do you deal with others&#8217; expectations?  I know that some people are better at meeting expectations when there is a threat of shame. Not me. I would rather run away. Put pressure on me and I avoid you and your task. Ugh. Not the most healthy option&#8230; So I have to think of other ways to deal [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[How do you deal with others&#8217; expectations?  I know that some people are better at meeting expectations when there is a threat of shame. Not me. I would rather run away. Put pressure on me and I avoid you and your task. Ugh. Not the most healthy option&#8230; So I have to think of other ways to deal [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>When I Feel Tossed By The Morning Winds</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2015 03:18:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[What goes through your mind when you wake up in the morning? Do you jump out of bed, ready to hit the day or do you roll over and hit the snooze button instead? Perhaps you are like me and set the alarm for as late as possible. My kids have been my alarm for [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>When The Weight Of Love Knocks Me Down</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2015 15:59:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[We had time to kill before school. I was feeling particularly drawn to this child in this moment, so I heaved up her 8-year-old self and we bounced around the kitchen to the morning music. We used to dance like this when you were a baby. I’d hold you like this and would bounce you [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>Warmth for Cold Hearts</title>
		<link>https://andreajoywenburg.com/heatwave2015-warmth-for-cold-hearts/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2015 20:21:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[“In other news&#8230;tomorrow is Monday and the first weekday of February!” My sister’s Facebook post at the end of the SuperBowl got me thinking. It sure seems like there’s a lot of crummy going around lately. Illness, cabin fever, unmet New Year’s expectations, people attacking other people, people ignoring people attacking other people, and lots and [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[“In other news&#8230;tomorrow is Monday and the first weekday of February!” My sister’s Facebook post at the end of the SuperBowl got me thinking. It sure seems like there’s a lot of crummy going around lately. Illness, cabin fever, unmet New Year’s expectations, people attacking other people, people ignoring people attacking other people, and lots and [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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