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		<title>How To Find the Opportunity In Any Obstacle</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2019 08:30:45 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m not one of those people who believe everything happens for a reason. However, I do believe we can choose how we respond to obstacles in life and that every obstacle opens the door to an opportunity. In this episode, I go deeper into this topic by telling a story about how my dog made [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>How to Accept Your True Voice and then Find the Grace to Let it Go</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jun 2017 16:08:03 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description><![CDATA[We have a great episode today, filled with information about accepting your true voice and navigating the changes in life while finding a new expressions for your Voice of Influence. Don&#8217;t miss the great lesson at the end where Dr. Foradori helps us learn techniques for making our speaking voice resonate and carry through a crowd. [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>A Family Miracle: Polygamist Cult Survivors Part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 May 2017 08:43:06 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description><![CDATA[In Part 1 of this interview with cousins, authors and polygamist cult escapees Anna LeBaron and Ruth Wariner we learned the back story of what makes their relationships so extraordinary. In this episode we hear how the cousins relate to one another&#8217;s painful experiences, healing journeys and the messages they feel called to speak to [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>Why I DON&#8217;T Think You Should Be Vulnerable</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2017 16:24:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[Do you hear people talk about &#8220;vulnerability&#8221; as though it&#8217;s something we ought to be? I used to, but I&#8217;ve changed my perspective on vulnerability. Listen to this audio explanation or read the transcript below. Do you think you should be vulnerable? I recorded this audio for you. You can listen to it by pressing play [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>The Moment I Found A New Freedom</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Oct 2016 20:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s hard for me to believe that it&#8217;s been six years since we moved to North Platte and left an amazing group of young Hastings College women who stole my heart. But here we are, so many years later, and they&#8217;ve all moved on to new cities, new relationships and new careers. I&#8217;m as proud [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It&#8217;s hard for me to believe that it&#8217;s been six years since we moved to North Platte and left an amazing group of young Hastings College women who stole my heart. But here we are, so many years later, and they&#8217;ve all moved on to new cities, new relationships and new careers. I&#8217;m as proud [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>How to Say &#8220;No&#8221; When You&#8217;re Expected to Say &#8220;Yes&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 May 2016 02:50:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[We were new to town with a new baby and a new home. Every step into all of the new was a little scary and a lot overwhelming. I joined an organized mom’s group to have a place to go where I could meet other women and face the fact that my life had forever [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>The Opportunity in Your Imperfections</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2016 17:05:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[Messing up is exhausting. Guess who didn&#8217;t wear her glasses to school again today? I mean, seriously! Four weeks ago I started this series talking about my sweet Amelia and how both of us forget to be sure she&#8217;s wearing her important reading glasses to school.  I don&#8217;t pay close attention to these details and [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Messing up is exhausting. Guess who didn&#8217;t wear her glasses to school again today? I mean, seriously! Four weeks ago I started this series talking about my sweet Amelia and how both of us forget to be sure she&#8217;s wearing her important reading glasses to school.  I don&#8217;t pay close attention to these details and [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>The Day I Realized I Was Hurting Myself</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2016 04:12:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[I remember the day I realized I was hurting myself. My head hung low, my shoulders nearly touched each other in front of my chest and my fingers gripped and pulled at sections of hair on both sides of my head. Then hateful words spat forth from my lips, “Why am I so stupid?! I [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>Stepping Out of Self-Shame: Part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2016 03:02:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[It happened again. I messed it all up. I let down some of the people I care about most last week by not paying attention to the details. It wasn’t that I intentionally blew my husband or my friend off, but I didn’t execute tasks with the kind of precision they required and I ended [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It happened again. I messed it all up. I let down some of the people I care about most last week by not paying attention to the details. It wasn’t that I intentionally blew my husband or my friend off, but I didn’t execute tasks with the kind of precision they required and I ended [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>Stepping Out Of Self-Shame: Part 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Apr 2016 14:08:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[A week ago I shared a few reflections on my own experience with self-shame in The Prerequisite To Empowering Others (&#60;&#8212;click to read the article before you read this one) so I will only share a snippet of it here. I’ve heard a lot of people say that the answer is that we need to [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A week ago I shared a few reflections on my own experience with self-shame in The Prerequisite To Empowering Others (&#60;&#8212;click to read the article before you read this one) so I will only share a snippet of it here. I’ve heard a lot of people say that the answer is that we need to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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