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		<title>What to Say to People Who Are Angry with You with Andrea Joy Wenburg</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2018 08:30:09 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description><![CDATA[As a voice of influence, I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve experienced your fair share of negative people or trolls. They often seem angry for no reason, don&#8217;t respond to logic, and only hoping to bring others down. In this episode, I&#8217;m offering an explanation for a reason as to why they seem so irrationally angry and a [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>Why I Wear Sunglasses In Wal-Mart, And Perhaps You Should Too</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2015 03:24:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[It just happened. We were looking at pictures of the Nebraska State Fair in anticipation of visiting soon when Grant screeched with glee, right in my ear. I don&#8217;t know how to describe how disturbing it is for me when loud, sharp noises upset my internal equilibrium. I went from being at complete peace to [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It just happened. We were looking at pictures of the Nebraska State Fair in anticipation of visiting soon when Grant screeched with glee, right in my ear. I don&#8217;t know how to describe how disturbing it is for me when loud, sharp noises upset my internal equilibrium. I went from being at complete peace to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>Not So Great Expectations</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2015 13:19:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[How do you deal with others&#8217; expectations?  I know that some people are better at meeting expectations when there is a threat of shame. Not me. I would rather run away. Put pressure on me and I avoid you and your task. Ugh. Not the most healthy option&#8230; So I have to think of other ways to deal [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[How do you deal with others&#8217; expectations?  I know that some people are better at meeting expectations when there is a threat of shame. Not me. I would rather run away. Put pressure on me and I avoid you and your task. Ugh. Not the most healthy option&#8230; So I have to think of other ways to deal [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>Your New Superpower</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2015 20:15:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[Apparently, I have a new superpower. My daughter has been sad a lot lately. She is entering that delicate tension between child and teen, running toward independence while simultaneously mourning the loss of naiveté. I rejoice with her and hurt for her. This is, what seems to be, the second in a series of transitions [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>When The Walls Close In</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2015 19:33:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Depression]]></category>
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				<description><![CDATA[This weekend I made a poor decision: I went to the department store Sunday morning. My daughter had a birthday party to attend after church and needed a gift. We were up early and in need of a few staples, so I grabbed my bags and we headed out so I could cross one of [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>What YOU can do Today &#8211; for your Sweet Hearts</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2015 16:33:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[She was upset. Really upset. I was calm. This time, I was calm. Earlier that day I determined to start a heatwave to offer Warmth for Cold Hearts around me and so I was focused and ready for this little tantrum. This was one cold heart that I’d been concerned about for a while. And the [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[She was upset. Really upset. I was calm. This time, I was calm. Earlier that day I determined to start a heatwave to offer Warmth for Cold Hearts around me and so I was focused and ready for this little tantrum. This was one cold heart that I’d been concerned about for a while. And the [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>The Thrill of Victory and the Agony of Defeat</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2015 20:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Depression]]></category>
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				<description><![CDATA[My husband informed me yesterday that this is the best weekend of sports for the entire winter, (IHHO). Playoffs and Championships &#8211; the thrill of victory and the agony of defeat! Living rooms and sports bars across the country will be filled with anticipation as beloved favorites lay it all on the line. There will [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My husband informed me yesterday that this is the best weekend of sports for the entire winter, (IHHO). Playoffs and Championships &#8211; the thrill of victory and the agony of defeat! Living rooms and sports bars across the country will be filled with anticipation as beloved favorites lay it all on the line. There will [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>When I Should Feel Joy #2: Post-Partum Depression</title>
		<link>https://andreajoywenburg.com/when-i-should-feel-joy-2-post-partum-depression/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2015 21:32:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[&#8230;One nurse caught me in a weak, tearful moment and gruffly asked, “Are you depressed?!” I pulled it together enough to sternly pronounce, “No. I am a counselor. I would know if I were depressed.” She backed off. And I backed into my shell&#8230; An excerpt from my previous post: When I Should Feel Joy [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[&#8230;One nurse caught me in a weak, tearful moment and gruffly asked, “Are you depressed?!” I pulled it together enough to sternly pronounce, “No. I am a counselor. I would know if I were depressed.” She backed off. And I backed into my shell&#8230; An excerpt from my previous post: When I Should Feel Joy [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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