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		<title>Why I DON&#8217;T Think You Should Be Vulnerable</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2017 16:24:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[Do you hear people talk about &#8220;vulnerability&#8221; as though it&#8217;s something we ought to be? I used to, but I&#8217;ve changed my perspective on vulnerability. Listen to this audio explanation or read the transcript below. Do you think you should be vulnerable? I recorded this audio for you. You can listen to it by pressing play [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>Good Girl Gone</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2016 17:34:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[For most of my life, I’ve been a dreamer and achiever. I’ve always set goals and then worked hard to attain them. It started in elementary school. When I worked hard, I received a lot of praise for doing well. So, I worked harder. I discovered that I liked the praise I was getting. Thus, [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>The Opportunity in Your Imperfections</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2016 17:05:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Shame]]></category>
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				<description><![CDATA[Messing up is exhausting. Guess who didn&#8217;t wear her glasses to school again today? I mean, seriously! Four weeks ago I started this series talking about my sweet Amelia and how both of us forget to be sure she&#8217;s wearing her important reading glasses to school.  I don&#8217;t pay close attention to these details and [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Messing up is exhausting. Guess who didn&#8217;t wear her glasses to school again today? I mean, seriously! Four weeks ago I started this series talking about my sweet Amelia and how both of us forget to be sure she&#8217;s wearing her important reading glasses to school.  I don&#8217;t pay close attention to these details and [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>Stepping Out of Self-Shame: Part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2016 03:02:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[It happened again. I messed it all up. I let down some of the people I care about most last week by not paying attention to the details. It wasn’t that I intentionally blew my husband or my friend off, but I didn’t execute tasks with the kind of precision they required and I ended [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>The Prerequisite to Empowering Others</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2016 13:12:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[I just got a call from our daughter’s school. Amelia forgot her glasses. Ugh. Those glasses are special glasses to help her eyes focus so she can read. Reading is pretty important in elementary school, so I hear. Immediately my heart sank and I began thinking on the dark side… How did I not notice she didn’t [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I just got a call from our daughter’s school. Amelia forgot her glasses. Ugh. Those glasses are special glasses to help her eyes focus so she can read. Reading is pretty important in elementary school, so I hear. Immediately my heart sank and I began thinking on the dark side… How did I not notice she didn’t [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>Emergency Cancellation</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2015 04:05:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Expression]]></category>
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				<description><![CDATA[Do you ever do something spontaneous and exciting? This week I made a last-minute decision to sign up for a workshop in Nashville. It&#8217;s the kind of workshop that could help me clarify the way I talk about my message now and for the future work I do. I would get to confer with business leaders [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you ever do something spontaneous and exciting? This week I made a last-minute decision to sign up for a workshop in Nashville. It&#8217;s the kind of workshop that could help me clarify the way I talk about my message now and for the future work I do. I would get to confer with business leaders [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>What Every Friend Should Know About Offering Advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2015 14:52:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[I realize it&#8217;s hard to find real friends. I&#8217;ve heard a lot of complaints over the years about how people don&#8217;t really listen, they don&#8217;t really care and they don&#8217;t really want to connect deeply. But I believe that while it may seem that way on the surface, there are actually WAY more lonely people [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I realize it&#8217;s hard to find real friends. I&#8217;ve heard a lot of complaints over the years about how people don&#8217;t really listen, they don&#8217;t really care and they don&#8217;t really want to connect deeply. But I believe that while it may seem that way on the surface, there are actually WAY more lonely people [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>It&#8217;s OK To Press Pause</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2015 02:57:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[Do you know those days where you push toward a goal with everything you have and you come to the dark hours of night thinking you&#8217;ll give a little more and then, you realize that it&#8217;s OK to press pause? So I will. But before I do, I have something I want to say to you. [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you know those days where you push toward a goal with everything you have and you come to the dark hours of night thinking you&#8217;ll give a little more and then, you realize that it&#8217;s OK to press pause? So I will. But before I do, I have something I want to say to you. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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		<title>The 1 Thing I Hope My Son Remembers From Our Fairy Tale</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2015 14:37:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[I wonder if this day marks the beginning of the end of a fairy tale. You may know the one I&#8217;m thinking of &#8211; the one where the young knight is inflicted with a paralyzing wound that can only be healed by a kiss. A mother&#8217;s kiss. It&#8217;s a fairy tale, but somehow the power [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>My Birthday Proclamation</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2015 13:45:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[Do you ever wonder what your life is really about? I am not talking about your overall beliefs about the meaning of life, necessarily. Rather, when you look at how you actually live, what you actually say and how you actually do what you do&#8230;how are you spending your life? The other day I watched [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you ever wonder what your life is really about? I am not talking about your overall beliefs about the meaning of life, necessarily. Rather, when you look at how you actually live, what you actually say and how you actually do what you do&#8230;how are you spending your life? The other day I watched [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	

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