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		<title>A Family Miracle: Polygamist Cult Survivors Part 2</title>
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				<description><![CDATA[In Part 1 of this interview with cousins, authors and polygamist cult escapees Anna LeBaron and Ruth Wariner we learned the back story of what makes their relationships so extraordinary. In this episode we hear how the cousins relate to one another&#8217;s painful experiences, healing journeys and the messages they feel called to speak to [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2016 17:05:56 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description><![CDATA[Messing up is exhausting. Guess who didn&#8217;t wear her glasses to school again today? I mean, seriously! Four weeks ago I started this series talking about my sweet Amelia and how both of us forget to be sure she&#8217;s wearing her important reading glasses to school.  I don&#8217;t pay close attention to these details and [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[I remember the day I realized I was hurting myself. My head hung low, my shoulders nearly touched each other in front of my chest and my fingers gripped and pulled at sections of hair on both sides of my head. Then hateful words spat forth from my lips, “Why am I so stupid?! I [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>Stepping Out of Self-Shame: Part 2</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[It happened again. I messed it all up. I let down some of the people I care about most last week by not paying attention to the details. It wasn’t that I intentionally blew my husband or my friend off, but I didn’t execute tasks with the kind of precision they required and I ended [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>Stepping Out Of Self-Shame: Part 1</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[A week ago I shared a few reflections on my own experience with self-shame in The Prerequisite To Empowering Others (&#60;&#8212;click to read the article before you read this one) so I will only share a snippet of it here. I’ve heard a lot of people say that the answer is that we need to [&#8230;]]]></description>
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		<title>When I Should Feel Joy #3: Shame</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrea Joy Wenburg</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[I should have handled it better. I should have been prepared. I should have more to give. I should get more done. I should be happier. I should be kind. I should pray. I couldn’t pray. Praying evokes some sort of awareness of God’s presence and I didn’t want my heart to be in anyone’s [&#8230;]]]></description>
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